Why do humans need love

If you are a person who wants to be in a relationship, have you thought about why? 
Actually, there are two very different reasons for wanting a relationship. 
1.The first is about what you want to get. 
2.The second is about what you want to learn and share.
                                                                                                                                                                 

            If you ask people why they want a relationship, many will say things like:

• I want someone to love me and make me feel special and worthy.
• I don't want to be alone and lonely anymore.

• I want to feel safe and secure.

         What they might not say  is that they want a relationship to:

• Fill the empty place within them.
• Complete them. They hope that their partner will give them what they are not giving to themselves .
• Make them feel taken care of emotionally, financially .

           but the main reason of relationship is to

learn,heal and share.
If you honestly ask yourself why you want a relationship,and you find yourself on the second list rather than first

why people often compares with others and gets depressed

                                                                                                                                                                   

• I have seen many people who compare with others and judging themselves
• we need to realize that every person in this world is unique.who you are today is the result of the decisions you made yesterday.

• so, when you catch yourself comparing yourself to another, stop for a moment and re-direct the thought. Instead of submitting to the temptation to compare yourself to someone else, ask yourself a few questions instead.
• so,simply redirect the comparison to a past and a present self and keep the comparison within

 SIGNS OF LUST

You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body.

You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.

You’d rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.

You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.

You are lovers, but not friends.

SIGNS OF LOVE

You want to spend quality time together other than sex.

You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.

You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other happy.

He or she motivates you to be a better person.

You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.

four ways to get success in life

1.Stop blaming others and making excuses. It really doesn’t make a difference if the problems in your life were caused by someone else. It really doesn’t matter if circumstances in your life make it difficult or almost impossible for you to succeed. You are the only person you can rely on to fix your problems. If you want things to be better, you have to make them better.
2.Stop procrastinating. Don’t keep telling yourself that you will go back to school next year or that you’ll study tomorrow or that you’ll apply for that job next week. Putting things off is a sure-fire way to make sure things don’t get done or get done poorly. Tackle problems and tasks early, to give yourself more time to do them properly and excel at what you do.

3.Build your skills. Study hard in school and then spend the rest of your life dedicated to becoming better and better at whatever you do. Being good at what you do is the surest way to succeed and create circumstances in which you can better your life.

• Take extra classes and training once you’ve settled into a career to refresh your skills and learn the latest techniques and practices.
• Practice job skills outside of work and use the internet to find helpful techniques and tricks.
• Talk to the masters to get helpful advice and learn from their experience.
• 4.Take care of your body. You don’t want to put in all this effort and not be able to do anything because you’re held back by health problems. Take care of your body by eating right, exercising, and keeping clean. See a doctor when you have problems and make use of preventative care. This will help keep problems from arising and dealing with any problems early will help solve them before they get out of hand.
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