Why do humans need love

If you are a person who wants to be in a relationship, have you thought about why? 
Actually, there are two very different reasons for wanting a relationship. 
1.The first is about what you want to get. 
2.The second is about what you want to learn and share.
                                                                                                                                                                 

            If you ask people why they want a relationship, many will say things like:

• I want someone to love me and make me feel special and worthy.
• I don't want to be alone and lonely anymore.

• I want to feel safe and secure.

         What they might not say  is that they want a relationship to:

• Fill the empty place within them.
• Complete them. They hope that their partner will give them what they are not giving to themselves .
• Make them feel taken care of emotionally, financially .

           but the main reason of relationship is to

learn,heal and share.
If you honestly ask yourself why you want a relationship,and you find yourself on the second list rather than first